Riding Against The Grain

Whether it’s your first season or your fifteenth, it’s easy to get caught up in the polish of the show ring: gleaming coats, matching saddle pads, perfect braids. And while presentation absolutely matters, that’s not what makes a good show.

Here’s what actually matters—and what’s worth protecting—when you walk down that barn aisle and head to your next competition.

1. Your Horse’s Comfort Comes First

Before ribbons, before routines, before ring strategy—your horse’s comfort is non-negotiable.

Does their tack fit properly, especially after changes in fitness or weight? Are they eating and drinking well at the showgrounds? Are you checking in on how they feel mentally—not just physically?

Because when your horse feels safe and cared for, that is what creates confident rounds and happy hauls home.

2. Preparation Over Perfection

A smooth show weekend starts weeks before you even load the trailer. Whether you’re working on your horse’s fitness or memorizing new tips, the goal isn’t perfection—it’s consistency and calm.

Practice under pressure when you can. Ride in different environments. Let mistakes happen at home. That way, your horse trusts you to lead even when the environment changes.

3. Your Energy Sets the Tone

Horses pick up on everything: tension in your hands, worry in your breath, even how fast you walk into the barn. Showing up grounded—not rushed or reactive—is half the battle.

Are you taking care of your needs, too?

Getting enough sleep

Eating like an athlete (not just a granola bar in the car)

Giving yourself permission to be human—because your worth is not measured in ribbons.

4. Your Team Matters

Even if it’s just you and a borrowed trailer, your “team” includes everyone who helps you show up: barn friends, coaches, vets, farriers, even your family. Are you surrounded by people who actually want to see you succeed—not just win?

The show ring can feel competitive. But the barn aisle should feel safe.

5. Every Ride Is Data, Not Drama

Whether you ride your personal best or your reins slip halfway through your test, every round gives you feedback. Write it down. Think like a trainer. What went well? What felt off? That’s how growth happens—not just on show weekends, but all year long.

Final Thought:

You don’t have to chase perfection to be a serious rider. You just need to protect what matters: your horse’s trust, your own peace, and the kind of progress that lasts beyond the ribbons.